We talked about this on the show this morning--Do You Believe in LOVE or LUST at First Sight? We've all heard stories about people who meet someone and say right then and there--I'm going to marry that person! But how true are those stories, and if they're true, how often does that REALLY happen? And--do they follow thru with it, or does the relationship fizzle out before it reaches the altar?

Many questions and variables, for sure. I can tell you that when I met MY wife--I was instantly attracted to her but never said to myself (and especially not to HER!) "I'm going to marry that girl". I was smitten though, and asked her after our first date if we could date exclusively--and she wasn't interested in that at the time and wanted to continue to chat on line and meet with people and date around. So I told her that I respected her decision and that I wasn't interested in going forward then, as I didn't want to continue to see her in that capacity, develop feelings--then have her tell me she'd met someone else she wanted to pursue things further with.

So I withdrew and told her I just wanted to be friends. So she continued to see other people and so did I but we kept in touch and talked a lot on the phone, sharing stories about the dates we'd been on and the people we were meeting. Then one day a few months later--she asked me to lunch and told me she'd actually like to see where things went with us and that we should give it a try. And we've been together ever since. That will be 7 years ago this August. So--goes to show, too, that sometimes it can be "love" for one person, and not immediately for the other. Again--variables. I'd love to hear YOUR thoughts in the comments below as to whether or not you believe this is a thing--and share YOUR stories if you have one! -Gunner

LOOK: Here are the 50 best beach towns in America

Every beach town has its share of pluses and minuses, which got us thinking about what makes a beach town the best one to live in. To find out, Stacker consulted data from WalletHub, released June 17, 2020, that compares U.S. beach towns. Ratings are based on six categories: affordability, weather, safety, economy, education and health, and quality of life. The cities ranged in population from 10,000 to 150,000, but they had to have at least one local beach listed on TripAdvisor. Read the full methodology here. From those rankings, we selected the top 50. Readers who live in California and Florida will be unsurprised to learn that many of towns featured here are in one of those two states.

Keep reading to see if your favorite beach town made the cut.