Ask Texas – My Husband BLAMES ME If He Doesn’t Want To Go Anywhere And I Think It’s Not Cool
Listener Wrote: So I found out lately that my HUSBAND uses me as the EXCUSE if he doesn't want to go somewhere or do things when invited. He has done it with his co-workers and recently with his family. I found out from his SISTER that he blamed me for not going to a recent event. TOLD him to STOP! He said it was no biggie and no one really cares, just a way to get us out of stuff. Wow, anyone ever go though this?
HERE IS WHAT TEXS HAS TO SAY ABOUT IT
No big deal. At least he chooses to be with you instead of out doing stupid stuff. But don't let him make you out to be the bad guy to his family.
It makes the wife seem like she is anti-social.. that stems problems from the family thinking she isn't family oriented and that she doesn't like them. Totally unfair man..
Tell him to grow a pair
Hell no!!!!! Ex used to do this and I was made out to seem like the bad guy, like I never wanted him around or to do anything. If he don't want to go just say na I don't want to I'll rather be home, then say my wife don't feel like it
I remember them days. I only blame myself by saying "Bro, think about it, do you REALLY want me there" instant cancel! Win win for both sides!
It's me, cmon! Lol
Well you said "I do" so live with it now.